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- The Emotions as Tools Model March 2016
- Master Your Emotions as Strategic Tools: Why bother? May 2016
- Anger Mastery: Respond, do not react when using your emotions as tools August 2016
- Anger Mastery – Using Your Anger As a “Tool” Allows You to Take Control of Your Life October 2016
- The 3M approach to feelings Part 1 October 2016
- The 3M approach to feelings. Part 2 October 2016
- Why you might dislike having emotions. December 2016
- It’s 2 AM and you are wide awake. What you might be feeling and what you can do about it. November 2016
- How do you deal with bad moods? January 2017
- Your emotional toolkit. April 2017
- Facts about emotions you probably didn’t know. Part 1: Some emotions have a “flipside”. August 2017
- Facts about emotions you probably didn’t know. Part 2: The Functions of emotions 1 through 5. August 2017
- Facts about emotions you probably didn’t know. Part 3: Functions of emotions 6 through 10. August 2017
- Facts about emotions you didn’t know. Part 4: You create your emotions (and this has implications). August 2017
- Yoda quotes and emotions as tools. April 2018
- Happy Independence Day. Let’s Talk about Emotional Preparedness and Your Emotional Independence. July 2018
- Using metaphor: Ready, Aim, Fire or Ready, Fire, Aim? July 2018
- Understanding Feelings: Sunglasses, The Spotlight Effect, and Your World Model (Part 1) August 2018
- Understanding Feelings: Sunglasses, The Spotlight Effect, and Your World Model (Part 2) August 2018
- Getting to “Done”: Master Your Procrastination as a Strategic Tool August 2018
- Emotions and Logic…Mutually Exclusive or Mutually Reinforcing? P 1: Mutually Exclusive So Less Emotion. September 2018
- Emotions and Logic…Mutually Exclusive or Mutually Reinforcing? P 2: Mutually Inclusive So More Emotions September 2018
- “Shoulds” are like a bad book cover. We might avoid “content” that could benefit us. October 2018
- Physical and Emotional “pain”—The same to the brain. October 2018
- Mastering Holiday Feelings 2018 November 2018
- Catastrophising: How you make a mountain out of a molehill! December 2018
- 5 Facts About Emotions to Help You Take Back Control of Your Life. January 2019
- Five Steps to Mastering Emotions. January 2019
- Why labelling an emotion (correctly) is important. June 2019
- An object lesson in Emotional Mastery from an incredible American athlete. July 2019
- How to express your emotions. August 2019
- Emotions and Productivity August 2019
- Can you please motivate me (to finish what I started)? September 2019
- Seven Top Conflict Resolution Tips Using Emotions As Tools November 2019
- Covid-19 and Panic from an Emotions as Tools Perspective April 2020
- Being Rational is good. But…Emotion (pain, anger and others) informs intellect. June 2020
- A Self-Help “Secret” You Can Use to Make Your Life Better. July 2020
- Emotions – The Meaning of Life. July 2020
- Becoming aware of (so that you can master) Your Emotions: Three options. September 2020
- Mindfulness-The Overlooked Key to Emotional Mastery October 2020
- 5 Steps to Master Any Emotion as a Strategic Tool April 2021
- July 4, 2021 – Celebrate Your Three “Independences” and 7 Steps to Emotional Independence June 2021
- Is There Any Advantage to Having Feelings (Emotions)? October 2021
- Can a person be intellectually strong, yet emotionally weak? October 2021
- How do you physically experience and manifest emotions? Step 1 of the Emotional Mastery Cycle (EMC). January 2022
- Step #2 of the Emotional Mastery Cycle: Manage Your Emotional Readiness January 2022
- Steps #3 and #4 of the Emotional Mastery Cycle (EMC) February 2022
- Mastering Emotions for Entrepreneurs and others – A recent Podcast February 2022
- What You Can Do in the Next 48 hours to Begin Mastering Your Emotions as Strategic Tools. March 2022
- Mastering Emotions for Entrepreneurs and others – My second interview. March 2022
- What You Can Do in the Next 48 hours to Begin Mastering Your Emotions as Strategic Tools. March 2022
- This is a link to a recent podcast I did on emotions with time stamps. May 2022
- A New Podcast-Different Topics. May 2022
- Mastering Grief as a Strategic Emotion. June 2022
- Regret: An emotion I misunderstood. Until Now. July 2022
- Is it a good idea to hide negative emotions from your children? Part #1 July 2022
- Is it a good idea to hide negative emotions from your children? Part #2 August 2022
- Emotional Empowerment. Your Emotions are always Valid. But, They May Not be Appropriate! Anger as an example. August 2022
- Your Brain VERSES Your Feelings? Nope! Your Brain AND Your Feelings. September 2022
- Mastering emotions as tools: Anger, and your car’s “smart cruise control”. September 2022
- Hidden Emotional Traps including: “As-if”, Castastrophising, and others. October 2022
- Using Your Emotions as Motivators to Changing Your Life: A new Approach to the Upcoming Holiday Season. N0vember 2022
- 2023 and the Changes You Have Chosen to Make. January 2023
- Four Benefits You Get When You Master Your Emotions as Strategic Tools. January 2023
- Mastering the (So-called) Negative Emotion of Anxiety. February 2023
- The Power of Words 1: “Why do I get mad when people say “ok” to me?” February 2023
- The Power of Words 2: “Divorced” or “Single”? Psychologically, It Makes a Big Difference! March 2023
- The Power of Words 3: “Feeling Stuck”? March 2023
- A quick note on guilt. March 2023
- Rationalize vs Rational Lies. April. 2023
- Emotional Authenticity. April 2023
- The potential bind of situational authenticity – A follow-up comment. May 2023
- What are your “emotional” prejudices? May 2023
- Blaming Your Emotions (Person or Situation) for Your Behavior is Always Inappropriate. June 2023
- July 4, 2023— Celebrate TWO “Independences” and the 7 Steps to Emotional Independence. June 2023
- Criticism as gotten a bad rap. Learn to strategically deploy it using Emotions as Tools Model and the Basic Relationship Rule July 2023
- Let’s take a look at “hate” and why you might want to avoid it. July 2023
- How to effectively understand and deal with other people in their relationships with you.–A Quick Guide. August 2023
- 2 Problematic Processes which Activate and Energize Emotional Threats and How To Neutralize Them. August 2023
- Mastering the Emotions of “missed opportunities”. September 2023
- The Emotional Mastery Cycle and Asking questions Part 1 September 2023
- The Emotional Mastery Cycle and Asking Questions: Anger. Part 2 October 2023
- Do your emotions “work” for you or do they “control” you? October 2023
- What is the best way to stay calm in the situation when you are going to burst out your anger? November 2023